• Skip to primary navigation
  • Skip to main content

Cultivage

Cultivating talent and creating opportunities

  • Home
  • About
  • Professional Development
  • Coaching Services
  • Speaking Services
  • Ideas that Matter
  • Contact
  • Show Search
Hide Search
You are here: Home / Archives for Uncategorized

Uncategorized

Empathy in the Workplace: A Critical Professional Skill

Maureen Breeze · Nov 26, 2017 ·

Empathy – the capacity to be aware of and sensitive to the feelings, thoughts and experience of others – is something we often associate with learning on the grade school playground. However, it is not a skill all master equally, and yet it is critical to success in the work place.

As many companies strive for innovation, empathy as a professional skill is garnering attention. The popularity of design thinking as a problem solving strategy relies on empathy to put the ‘end’ users’ needs at the forefront of the process. Designers spend significant time considering how the end user might benefit from a new product or solution, what needs and challenges they have, and what other experiences they may be bringing to the situation, all which influence the creative problem-solving process. Innovators often spend significant time building ‘personas’ – templates that drive thinking to get into the heads of their customers and see how they live day in and day out. In the realm of technology and engineering, design thinking has elevated the ability to empathize as a prime professional skill.

Professionals concerned with customer service have long understood the value of empathy. Knowing how a customer experiences an existing product or service, or how he or she perceives an organization is critical for a business’s success. Today, some companies go the extra mile to truly understand their customers’ and employees’ experience. An executive at one of the premier pay-for-TV companies recently told me about their policy of having executives ride with technicians and go into people’s home to install equipment and trouble-shoot problems. He said that nothing helps upper management solve problems faster and more effectively than truly knowing their customer base and seeing for themselves what it’s like to represent the company on the front lines.

Empathy impacts our day-to-day interactions at work as well. The ability to manage up, across and down, often directly correlates with one’s empathy quotient. When coaching new managers, I spend time exploring strategies for boosting empathy. How can they better understand and anticipate their boss’s needs? How can they individualize their management style to suit a team of direct reports demonstrating different levels of motivation, experience and engagement? How do they add-value to a team of colleagues with conflicting personalities and challenging dynamics? The skill of empathy can be a new manager’s best tool for success.

Nothing can sabotage success like the lack of empathy. Just this week a coffee shop in the historical Five Points neighborhood of Denver made headlines for posting a sign that read, “Happily gentrifying the neighborhood since 2014.” Longtime residents who have called the neighborhood home for generations were insulted. The CEO apologized for his ‘blind spot’ to others’ interpretations of the sign. Empathy as to how his message could be received could have prevented a now damaged reputation.

At the most basic level, empathy can be a defining metric for appropriate and inappropriate behavior, all by simply understanding how someone might perceive one’s actions. Just last week David Brooks, Opinion Editor at the New York Times, was asked about the recent string of sexual harassment allegations in the press. He said he was surprised by how often the accused responded by saying “they had no idea women were thinking this way.” Brooks goes on to comment, “it’s an inability to put your mind in the mind of the person…it’s a sort of moral and human blindness toward another human being’s experience.”

Today, this blindness – or lack of empathy – is toppling many at the height of their careers. The time is ripe to rethink empathy as a professional skill so that all may survive and thrive in today’s workplace.

 

Creating a Culture of Connection

Maureen Breeze · Nov 22, 2017 ·

Creating a Culture of Connection

What is the value of human connection? We are learning that it’s much greater than previously thought. A growing body of research reveals the positive impact human connection has on wellbeing and productivity in our workplaces, educational institutions and community at large. At a time when technology has the power to infringe on personal connection, it’s more important than ever for leaders to foster opportunities for employees to come together and engage in authentic exchange.

Connection at work – According to research conducted by the firm Globoforce, over 90 percent of workers spend upwards of 30 hours a week with colleagues, while only 52 percent of people spend that much time with family. Yet the Gallup Poll’s findings indicate less than 1/3 of employees are ‘engaged’ at work and experience a strong connection to their workplace. When employees are strongly connected at work, they expend more effort, go out of their way for other employees, and speak highly of their organizations. The result? Lower turnover, better attention to detail, higher morale, and greater profits. Creating a culture where employees feel a sense of belonging with one another and to the organization at large has never been more important for leaders and managers.

Connection at school – Our education institutions are no different than workplaces. This sense of belonging is critical for student success and organization sustainability. In the late 70’s, Dr. Uri Treisman, then at UC Berkeley, questioned why his African American male students were struggling in Calculus class at higher rates than other student groups. His research uncovered one critical difference exhibited by his African American male students: they tended to study alone as opposed to working with others. When he introduced study groups for all students this gap closed. These study groups created a sense of belonging and connection to the institution that made significant difference in these students’ overall experience and academic outcomes.

Connection in the community – The implications of connection, or lack of it, reach well beyond work and school. Loneliness is found to increase chances of stroke or heart disease by 30%. On the other hand, feelings of social connection can strengthen the immune system, lengthen life, and lower rates of anxiety and depression (Harvard Business Review, 6/29/17). John Cacioppo, a social neuroscientist at the University of Chicago, defines loneliness as perceived social isolation, which is different than introversion or the state of being alone. He’s found that loneliness can predict morbidity and mortality. At the same time, deep connection, and the experience of having a true confidant, helps people thrive. Deep reciprocal relationships counter loneliness and increase the levels of cortisol and oxytocin in the brain. Perhaps even more important is that loneliness appears to be contagious, which has dangerous implications for the workplace. If one person is lonely, they are more likely to deal with others cautiously and defensively, creating potential negative social reactions and repercussions.

In this era of striving to do everything faster with greater efficiency, how can we step back and create opportunities for human connection? Here are a few questions and ideas to consider:

Remove barriers – Look to see where barriers exist at your institution. What type of open workspaces might be created? What cross-functional teams can be formed to address a problem? And how might management and leadership development programs integrate employees from all ranks? Perhaps most importantly, how can building trust be a primary goal for all? Nothing impedes connection like fear and distrust. A simple rule of thumb – criticize in private, acknowledge in public – goes along way toward building rapport that leads to authentic connection.

Create opportunities for exchanges – In the last ten years the emphasis on architectural design to promote collaboration has skyrocketed. Open work environments, shared community spaces such as kitchens and lounges, and bathroom placement along the periphery to promote people walking past one another, all drive human connection. How can you create opportunities for serendipitous encounters that drive innovation, wellbeing and connection?

Structure events – Schedule regular events for employees to engage with one another. Whether they’re lectures, Friday lunches, or an afternoon outing to the ball- park, these opportunities allow employees to connect beyond the professional setting. While it may seem like valuable work time will be lost, close work friendships boost employee satisfaction by 50%, and people with a best friend at work are seven times more likely to be fully engaged on the job, all which positively impact productivity and the bottom line (Gallup Report, State of the American Workplace).

Coach employees for personal development – More important than social connections are employees’ personal connections to the organization, its mission, and their own professional sense of purpose. When leaders and managers coach employees, they are able to build bonds that allow for personal development that reach well beyond traditional performance reviews. Coaching employees to cultivate their purpose within their roles, establish concrete goals, explore avenues for growth and challenge, and develop actionable plans, fosters authentic relationships that enhance connection and camaraderie, all while boosting job performance.

To learn more, contact us to explore how you can create connections at your workplace that foster engagement and wellbeing for your most valuable resource – your people!

  • « Go to Previous Page
  • Go to page 1
  • Interim pages omitted …
  • Go to page 4
  • Go to page 5
  • Go to page 6

Contact us for more information  Email Us Today!

 

 

Copyright © 2025 | Cultivage | (303) 912-0271 | email

  • Home
  • About
  • Professional Development
  • Coaching Services
  • Speaking Services
  • Ideas that Matter
  • Contact